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Cindy Ly

Cindy Ly

The Silent Struggle: Finding Freedom in Expression

As a child, one of my core memories was crying in the closet in the middle of the night. I thought the clothes would absorb the sound, making me invisible to the world. Moments later, my upset father opened the closet door, took me out, and placed me on the

Preserving Roots: A Journey Through a Two-Language Home"

Preserving Roots: A Journey Through a Two-Language Home"

Growing up, Vietnamese was the language of our household. English was reserved for interactions with siblings, but within the familial sphere, Viet was priority. My parents instilled in us the importance of language as a vessel for cultural preservation. We engaged in weekend Viet school sessions, meticulously sounding out letters

Are We born or Made into Leaders?

Are Leaders Born or Made? The timeless debate of whether leaders are born or made has long intrigued me, prompting deep reflections. There are multiple books, classes, and general content that can dive into this question: are there natural born leaders, or people make their way up and are made.

Why you Shouldn't Read My Book

Why you Shouldn't Read My Book

An Idea Came around I vividly recall the pivotal moment the idea of writing took root within me. It was during a grueling 10-mile race, where every step felt like a struggle against my own limitations. Mile after mile, my body begged for respite, yet my mind was resolute—I

The Seed of Shame

Nurturing the seed of Shame In my early years, the concept of shame eluded me; I simply felt it as an unspoken desire to earn my parents' pride. However, praise was scarce, guided by a Vietnamese analogy "Hang de cang" (misspelled sounding out phonetically) praise a child

Girls Can't Have Fun: Navigating Society's Expectations

From the moment we are born, our gender becomes a defining factor in shaping our lives, whether we choose it or not. Biological distinctions mold our paths, determining whether life flows through us (female) or if we seek to pass on our seed (male). These inherent aspects set the stage

Cultural Divide

In this exploration of identity and belonging, delve into the experiences of a first-generation Vietnamese American navigating family traditions, discrimination, and the path to self-acceptance in a diverse world